TONYO, the reality is, you've either got a bad earth/s somewhere; you've got a bad (dead or dying) battery; or you've got a bad (dead or dying) charging system! There's not really much else besides a few - very few other
maaaayyyyybeee remotely possible options that this could be, but those few are not only remote but also usually things that either work or they don't, &
that means your Spyder would either be running or wouldn't! And yet it clearly does, at least some of the time..... So it
REALLY looks like it's gonna be one of those first three :banghead: Sure, you could fit a volt meter and watch it closely, but who's to say it'll be sensitive enough to be helpful, & besides, you only
might get some better insight into which of those three it is; but really, it's clearly most likely going to be one of them, so why not cut straight to the chase & start eliminating those possibilities?!? :dontknow:
Personally, because of the frequent short trips & regular use of a battery tender, at this stage I'd punt on it being the battery & either fitting a '
known good' &
fully charged battery that's
NOT your current battery; or buying a brand new '
spec or better than spec' battery, then
charging it for at least 8 hours on a proper multi-stage charger yourself, so that
YOU KNOW it's been properly charged before installation; and then seeing what happens! A new & fully charged battery may well resolve the issue, but if it doesn't you'll then
KNOW it's not the battery and have a better chance of fixing it as time progresses! :thumbup: Or, if
you prefer, you could do the stator thing, or the strip it all & check every earth on the Spyder first; but given the latest info you've provided I reckon they're the lesser likely options of those first three above, and they're both harder to do properly... so

Still, it's your choice.... :dontknow:
Altho I 'spose you could go on having this problem occur every now & then until it either stops of its own accord; or you could just let it run as is until the bike will no longer start/run, probably when you're far away from home &/or at the least convenient time possible, but at least you'll then most likely be able to work out which of those three it was & get it fixed... possibly at premium prices cos it's now urgent that you get it sorted; or you could let it run as is until it damages/destroys something waaayy more expensive that stops the bike completely..... :sour : Regardless of whether it's one of those three or not, from where we are sitting & probably from where most troubleshooters would be sitting, from here on in it's likely going to be a process of elimination that relies on these options being fixed & excluded in turn until either something changes that clearly identifies the problem, or the problem is finally fixed.... but it's time to
DO something, or you'll never know
when it will hit next, or
if you'll be able to start your Spyder the next time you try to...... :gaah: